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Thank you so much for participating in this year's Ignite The Spark: The State of Dating Telesummit. THIS PRESENTATION HAS ENDED. Christian has written an incredibly powerful program - How To Catch Him And Keep Him - that hundreds of thousands of women like yourself have invested in and used with great success. His program shows you: - What goes on inside a man's mind... and how attraction works for him- The ten dangerous mistakes to avoid that most women make with men- The differences in how men and women think about dating... and why- The seven secrets to communicating with a man that will help create lasting love and affection I give Christian's program the highest recommendation I possibly can - it really is a phenomenal program for women. Learn more about it here. LEGENDARY LOVE: HOW TO CREATE BODICE RIPPING ROMANCE THAT LASTS FOREVER - WITH LAUREN FRANCESLadies, Tonight you're in for a TREAT. My interview with Lauren Frances was so full of NEW an INSPIRED information that its gonna knock your stockings off! I call Lauren "The Marriage Machine" - and what a magnificent, ebullient and brilliant (and luscious) "machine" she is. Lauren is the 'go-to' love coach to Hollywoods A list celebrities, as well as to women around the world - and for good reason. She DEEPLY understands what make a man BEG to marry you. I personally love Lauren and her work and in fact, am preparing a special course to teach with her. She is one of a kind - and essential. Her international best seller, Dating, Mating, and Manhandling is the new dating bible, and her interview about how to create "magnetic Attraction" and "bodice-ripping romance" will help you not only ignite the spark of romance, it'll make you so magnetic that men will be irresistibly drawn to you, like moths to a flame! THIS PRESENTATION HAS ENDED. Lauren has another wonderful program that will literally give you step-by-step instructions for creating your own personal "Romantic Roadmap". I highly, highly recommend all of Laurens programs - so check out her Romantic Reboot here. THIS PRESENTATION HAS ENDED. Andrea has put together a free "Belly Blast Starter Kit" for you that will show you how to overcome "bad genes", stop counting calories, and help you take control of your life. Grab your free copy here. Remember, the Ignite The Spark: The State of Dating Premium Lifetime Access Package price goes up by more than 50% on July 11th at midnight -- so make sure to claim your copy at the discounted price today. Get yours here. WHAT DID YOU THINK OF THE EVENT? WHO WAS YOUR FAVORITE SPEAKER? ANYONE THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO HEAR SPEAK AT NEXT YEARS EVENT? LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS BELOW.

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Stop Nagging

One of the predominant reasons for the demise of a relationship is nagging. We all know what "nagging" is and we have all been either the nagger or the recipient of hard core nagging at one time or another. Usually thought of as a feminine trait that only women are supposed to do, men also have the ability to badger beyond belief. Most people who nag their partners don't even realize they are doing it. The only thing which incessant nagging will do is push that special person away. This is always the exact opposite of its intent.

The prevailing reason why most people harass their lovers is because they don't feel like they are getting the response or attention they should be getting. Someone might nag about household chores, getting a new job, quitting smoking, not staying out late, financial issues and more. But saying the same thing over and over and over again is nagging. Even if you find new ways to state your demands, you are still saying the same thing and the object of your affections is still being and feeling nagged. The nagger wants a certain response and usually feels as if the other person is just not listening, so the nagger NAGS some more. Meanwhile, the person getting the heaping piles of orders, demands and nagging comments is getting pushed away. He or she will just end up walking away, ignoring the nagger even more and causing a great big fat circle that will not end until he or she ends the relationship.

I knew this one girl a few years ago who I befriended because we ended up being in the same circle of friends. She was a fun girl, a likable character and absolutely gorgeous But she always had a tough time keeping a guy. Here is a great example of "why". She was dating this man for a while. He was quite a catch and considered one of the most eligible bachelors in Houston. He was charming, handsome, well established, cultured and financially well endowed. This girl, whom I shall call Kiki, was about to turn thirty. For her birthday Kiki's paramour told her that he was taking Kiki to a mutual friend's house for dinner and drinks. Unbeknownst to her, he had invited about 100 people for a surprise party and he was carrying a diamond ring in his pocket to "Pop the Big One" that very evening. During the car ride over to her secret surprise party Kiki let loose on her boyfriend. She told him over and over that she could not believe all he was doing for her 30th birthday was taking her to dinner with friends. She nagged him terribly, even yelled at him, during the 40 minute ride. Needless to say, she apologized when she discovered all of her closest friends and family waiting for her. A surprise which he so thoughtfully arranged. Kiki never saw a diamond ring that night. He never even told Kiki about the ring. The next day he returned the ring and broke it off with Kiki. To this day she has no idea that he was about to propose and that he broke it off with her because of her childish nagging. I still don't have the heart to tell her.

Although I do adore this woman with all my heart, I will say he did the right thing. I think most people out there would not dare to be so rude and act disappointed with your lover's gift making him or her feel badly. This was an extreme case of aggressive nagging. It was done only to make him feel bad because she felt neglected. There are a lot of men and women who act like this. If you nag and treat your new romance in this manner, it won't last. Nagging will never get you what you want. I will say it again: nagging only pushes people away.

If you feel like you might be nagging your lover to death you might want to think about why you are doing this. You might even want to seek counseling. If you love your significant other and you want to keep your relationship intact, you must realize the negative impact that nagging will create. The unnecessary stress will eventually push your mate towards breaking up, divorce or straight into someone else's arms. If you feel that you are not getting the consideration or feedback you desire, you can get that attention back when you stop the pestering. You will stop pushing that person away and he or she might actually start to give you the response you wanted all on his or her own.

If you are the person being nagged you might feel like there is nothing you can do. I don't want to tell you to bite your tongue, that will only cause anger to rage inside of you. If you get nagged enough without saying a word, you could eventually blow up. Instead of saying nothing, remember why this person is nagging you: he or she is not getting the response from you which is needed to quell the nagging. If you want it to stop, think of a way that will appease this person. If he or she is nagging you, tell your lover that he or she is right and you will do "something" to resolve the situation. This will quickly put a lid on the nagging, for the moment anyways. And only try to calm these situations if this is a relationship you are willing to keep and work for. If the nagging turns to verbal and/or emotional abuse, it may be high time to start walking.

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