Here are a number of ways to do that:
1) I WANT TO TELL YOU A SECRET. I AM BI-SEXUAL.
The timings of pulling this off doesn't really matter, but the way does. You have to be very serious with her, and not at all reveal at any second that you are lying. You tell her - "all this while I loved you like crazy and I want to be with you, but I had this one secret and I can't keep with myself anymore, and you deserve to know." You tell her that throughout the relationship you were also committed with a guy, and you stay with him on weekends. The point is, you tell her to accept your boyfriend and that you love them both.
2) DISTANCE
If you don't meet a girl on regular basis and talk, things slow down at great degree. Tell her that you have to go to another city, for work/ studying/ make anything up. But this doesn't apply to everyone, because if you are in college/ workplace, and you have told her about it. But for those who haven't, just tell her you are out, and you can't pick her calls, or switch your phone off in the night and sleep. REMEMBER: I am not telling you to actually go somewhere. You stay at your own place, but don't meet or talk.
3) YOU ARE GOING ABROAD.
The next thing? You just got into a University in South Bronx, west Minnesota (make anything up). You can even say Jungles of Amazon or the Lake of Loch. Don't say that we are breaking up, focus on - "we can still work this out. Long distance isn't that hard if we love each other, plus I'll come once in every year."
4) WHEN YOU ARE KISSING HER, CLOSE YOUR EYES, AND SAY YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND'S NAME.
Guaranteed 100 % break- up.
5) YOU CAN'T FORGIVE YOURSELF, LAST NIGHT AT A PARTY YOU GOT DRUNK AND MADE A MISTAKE.
Infidelity always plays a genuine role in breaking up, but why can't you fake it? Tell her that you were at this wild party, you got drunk and had sex/ or kissed if kissing is that a big thing for your girl/ (add anything that will get you your freedom). And now you are telling her this as you can't lie to her.
(YOU ARE FREE TO ADD MORE WAYS IN THE COMMENT BOX)
Credit: dating-coach-anita.blogspot.com
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