Why do people, both men and women, suck up, kiss butt, etc., to get what they want? Women will divorce men for sucking up as surely as if they had an affair! What does it say about you if you're doing it, with the opposite sex and in other areas of your life? It's bad, no matter what you think it gets you. Read on...I got some rather colorful comments on a recent post about women being disgusted by men who allow themselves to be trod upon, so let's...