Learn The Art Of Talking To Girls and Double Your Dating!
Of course, this is a girl that we really really would want to talk to anytime on any day but since we don't want to make a fool out of ourselves we restrain ourselves from that pleasure. Well boys, don't you think its time to change that?
In that situation you probably say to yourself, "Ugh, if only I knew how to talk to girls I'd go up to her." Well the truth is, its not that hard. Knowing how to talk to girls isn't something that has to be difficult nor a task deemed to daunting. I think when first trying to wrap yourself around change and being the person who goes up to girls the most difficult part of that is to ACTUALLY get yourself to go up to the girl.
This article is here to help you get over that hump so you can actually get yourself to go up to a girl and to talk to her, anywhere, any time.
LEARN HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS HERE!
HERE IS A BRIEF PEP TALK ON HOW TO PSYCH YOU UP TO TALK TO GIRLS.
If you find yourself too nervous to go up to a completely attractive stranger, then don't start with that. Make conversation with other people and get your practice on. "Practice? We talking bout practice?" Yes, Iverson, we are talking about practice. I'm sure before the scoring and MVP trophies Iverson was at the gym 12 hours a day getting his game up. Well same concept here. Before you can get that trophy girl of yours, you need to earn your dues.
Practice speaking to people (guys and not so attractive women) and having a conversation with that. See how long you can keep a conversation going and how confident you are when doing so. Slowly this is going to build your confidence and your conversational skills. Both of which are essential when talking to girls.
SO TIP #1, PRACTICE! PRACTICE! PRACTICE! MAKE CONVERSATION WITH PEOPLE, IMPROVE YOUR CONVERSATION SKILLS AND GAIN CONFIDENCE. THIS IS SETTING A GREAT FOUNDATION FOR LEARNING HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS.
Think for a moment if you were selling a used car to a woman how would you sell it to her? How would your sales pitch go about? Would you talk about all the scratches and dents the car has? Spotlighting the no air condition features? Or would you wash the car until its immaculate and talk about its good points. Maybe not even talk about its good points all the time, but at least not talk about its bad points. Correct? Well apply that to when you're talking to a girl. A girl wants to talk to a guy who is confident in what he's selling to a girl (yourself!).
Be confident in yourself and don't focus on any insecurities you may have about you. Don't wallow in your own pool of self-pity, shining a spotlight on what you believe are your low selling points. Why would a girl invest her time in a person like that? Girls like to be proud of the guys they talk to and love it when a guy has confidence in them.
Tip #2 on how to talk to girls, bring that confidence to light and make sure you put your best foot forward leaving all the negative thoughts behind when you talk to girls!
If you still find yourself having trouble talking to girls, or even having the courage to go up to talk to girls, here is a great way to shake it off. Page Two Of How To Talk To Girls
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