Daniel asks...
NEED ONE ANSWER FOR BETTING HANDICAP?
Both teams MUST play for the BET to count.
Dota 2 - Handicap
A "handicap" is used in Dota 2 betting to even the odds between two unevenly matched teams. Each team is given a point total by the oddsmaker that can either be added or subtracted to the final score, thus factoring into if the BET was won or lost.
For example: LGD (-1.5) vs Orange (+1.5)
In this Best of 3 match up. If you would BET on LGD (-1.5) this means LGD MUST beat Orange 2:0, thus covering the handicap/spread. If you BET Orange (+1.5), they can lose by 1, or simply win straight up to win the BET.
In a Best of 5 Match Up - a -1.5 Handicap would work the same way.
LGD Has to win 3-0 or 3-1 for you to win the BET.
Both teams MUST play for the BET to count.
What if LGD wins 2-1 ?
Would then be winners Orange?
ANSWERS:
Yes.
You wrote "If you bet Orange (+1.5), they can lose by 1, or simply win straight up to win the bet."
So if LGD wins 2-1, then Orange lost by 1, didn't they?
Charles asks...
IS THE CONTENT OF BET RACIST?
meaning are there any racist programmes on BET
no not the title BET.is what they show or talk about racist any type of race bashing
if it was called urban entertainment television would there be less problems
ANSWERS:
Having a network that caters strictly to a specific target audience is not racist the name BET stands for Black Entertainment Television they're not pretending to target anyone else but they don't exclude other races from appearing on the network either. To be racist people have to be banned and mistreated and or misrepresented. I'm white and i occasionally watch it, it's not my favorite but just like scifi channel they get something good every once in a while and i've never seen anything really racist on there. So i'd have to say no.
Betty asks...
WHATS UR FAVORITE SHOW ON BET?!?
106&Park BET's Top 10 live and Acess Granted
And BET Now
ANSWERS:
Hm My fav. That involves music is 106 and park, tha student center, Access Granted, and BET after dark. My fav. Show tho is girlfriends and tha parkers !
Maria asks...
SLIGHTLY FLIRTY BETS FOR A GIRL?
K, so theres this girl i know that goes to a different school from me, but we live pretty close. Lately we've been making bets on just about anything; the superbowl, hockey games, basketball (shes actually really into sportswhich is why i like her!). The thing is, she always puts it on me to make up the bets, and im too scared to make it anything sexual, since our relationship is really clean so far, and cuz of some past stuff, that BET where the loser buys dinner is kinda hard. we're both sophomores and neither of us can driveany ideas for bets i can make?
oh woops, i think i put out the wrong idea bout what i need here. we're already making bets on sports games and stuff like that, i just need the punishments for the loser
ANSWERS:
Bet who can get the first bf/gf. Just ask her out after she agrees
Nancy asks...
COULD ANYONE TELL ABOUT THE MARTINGALE BETTING SYSTEM IN ONLINE ROULETTE?
What is known as the Martingale betting System?
ANSWERS:
Martingale betting system is also one of the famous betting moves in the online Roulette. This kind of betting involves a basic idea of mathematics. This mathematical or logical idea will improve one to win this betting. The player should need a clear knowledge and have the ability to tackle to the minimum loses and maximum win will surely help to bet this Martingale Betting System.
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Life is filled with obstacles and challenges. No matter how much you plot and plan, stuff happens that you think is not supposed to happen.
Your car breaks down; a cop gives you a speeding ticket; or your boss micro-manages everything that you do. These are obstacles that prevent us from doing what we were intending to do. A perfect example of an obstacle is what we are experiencing in Colorado right now: wildfires. Here in Colorado Springs, over 500 people lost their homes and everything they owned in the Black Forest Fire. We hold them in our hearts with compassion and understanding.
OBSTACLES AND CHALLENGES ARE THE FOUNDATIONS OF STORYTELLING.
Fires and other obstacles are what stories are made of. Without the bad guy, James Bond is just a handsome guy in a tuxedo. Without aliens from outer space, the Avengers are just a bunch of weirdos in Halloween costumes.
And without the Iceberg, the Titanic is simply a story about a cruise ship crossing the Atlantic.
Because we seem to learn more when things go wrong than when things go right, it's important to know HOW to portray the Iceberg Moment in your story.
THE ICEBERG MOMENT IS THE TURNING POINT IN YOUR STORY.
It's the moment when you encounter the obstacle, (Step Four of The Nine Steps of Story Structure). Up until that moment, everything is going according to plan. Consider the movie, "Titanic".
The movie starts with the ship in port. People are arriving in fancy carriages, luggage is being hoisted onto the decks and Leonardo DiCaprio's character is playing poker.
Once the ship leaves port, it's a big party. Everyone is having fun and Kate Winslet and Leonardo are falling in love. Everything is going according to plan until the Iceberg Moment. At that moment, the story takes a dramatic turn and people react.
In reality, no matter what the situation is, when we encounter the obstacle or challenge in our lives, we react. The first level of reaction is usually emotional: anger, frustration, shock, sadness, denial, resentment, disbelief, etc. In the movies, it usually involves a close-up.
The close-up in a movie is used to focus on the character processing this new information and deciding what to do about it. A close-up can last from five to ten seconds. It is filled with emotion.
The Iceberg Moment in your story should start with an emotional reaction as well. The technique I teach for this moment is called Hold the Moment.
THE ICEBERG MOMENT IS A STOP SIGN.
It's as if you're driving across town to an appointment and you're hitting green light after green light. When you encounter the obstacle or challenge, however, it's a red light. Everything stops for a few seconds. There are no words or explanation. You simply stop and react.
Think about one of your stories right now. Think about the time leading up to the obstacle or challenge. If you've constructed your story correctly using The Nine Steps, you started off on your journey with every expectation that things would go according to plan. And then the plan changed. Something that you couldn't have foreseen happened: the obstacle, crisis or challenge.
If you can recall that moment in time, you probably froze for a few brief seconds. Time stood still during that moment as you processed the situation. You probably experienced one of the emotions listed above.
Your story pivots on this moment. It changes from an ordinary story about an ordinary day to a story about a challenging day - a day with an important lesson learned. Because this is the pivotal moment in your story, you need to understand where it is and what to do to portray it.
The other day I saw a woman riding her bike. She slipped on some loose pebbles and fell hard on the ground. When she hit the ground she just laid there for a few seconds without moving. It was an Iceberg Moment. After about five seconds, she moved. She slowly got up and checked herself and her bike for damage. Those five seconds on the ground were a full stop. If the woman were telling the story, this would be the place for her to hold the moment.
I recently got a call from a client who was very excited about the program he saw me present at the American Society of Training and Development conference in Dallas in May. He asked me if I had the eLearning version of my Storytelling in Business Methodology. He wanted it for a virtual workforce of 100 people who are spread out across the world.
It was an Iceberg Moment for me. Up to that moment, my day was going fine. I was making phone calls, creating workbooks and talking to coaching clients on the phone. At that moment, however, I encountered the obstacle. It was a full stop. I knew I needed to make a change in my business model.
When I hung up the phone, I just sat there at my desk in silence. I was angry with myself for letting short-term busyness get in the way of long-term product development.
For years I've been planning to get around to developing an eLearning system. I even went into a TV studio last year and recorded 38 video learning modules for just that purpose.
The answer to his question was "NO, I do not have an eLearning version available." And because the answer was NO, he moved on and I lost an opportunity to expand the reach of my business at that time. The Iceberg Moment has caused me to reorder my priorities, and I am now in the process of working with an eLearning designer to create the Next Level Storytelling Video eLearning System.
THE ICEBERG MOMENT TURNS YOUR STORY AROUND.
After the Titanic crashed into the iceberg, the story changed. It became a story of survival. For the rest of the story, we witnessed people in distress. Some peoples' responses were honorable and noble while others' were selfish and mean. The story leading up to the Iceberg Moment introduced the characters and their relationships. The story after the Iceberg Moment revealed what kind of people they really were.
It's a fact - we learn more about how to deal with life when things go wrong than when things go right. Develop the stories from your life where things got tense, messy or downright disastrous. When you encounter the pivotal Iceberg Moment, Hold the Moment to increase the power of your story.
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Doug Stevenson works with individuals and organizations to help them choose, craft and deliver compelling speeches, presentations and stories. He is the president of Story Theater International, is the creator of The Story Theater Method and the author of the book, "Doug Stevenson's Story Theater Method "and The Dynamite Speech System.
His keynote speaking, corporate training and executive coaching clients include Aetna, Abbott Labs, Amgen, Coca Cola, Compassion International, Deloitte, Hewlett Packard, Lockheed Martin, Microsoft, Oracle, Volkswagen, The Nickelodeon Channel, The Department of Defense, The National Education Association and many more.
To inquire about Doug's availability email: deborah@dougstevenson.com
Doug can be reached at 1-800-573-6196 or 1-719-573-6195. Learn more about how Doug can help you tell your story, purchase the book, eBook or Story Theater audio six pack, and sign-up for the free Story Theater newsletter at: www.storytelling-in-business.com.
To say that I am not a big believer in those 'power of positive thinking' self-help seminars is to understate my feelings.
My exposure to them has been blessedly limited to a couple of work sessions in which charlatans outside experts were brought in to help us think our way out of tough situations. Like having aging technology and no money to invest in our products or marketing, in a market where all our competitors had shiny new products and deep pockets. Problems that, as any savvy business person knows, can be easily overcome by thinking lovely thoughts. (Think outside the poor-box, ladies and gentlemen!)
Would it surprise you to learn that my role at these bullshit off-sites incredible opportunities to learn was to play devil's advocate?
It's over a decade since I last participated in such torture an engrossing event, yet I can still recall exactly how I felt being there.
Much earlier, when I was in college, a friend and I went to an introductory Scientology seminar. When they brought out the e-meter - a black box that looked something like a Geiger counter with a couple of Donald Duck juice cans connected to it - used to detect someone's "basic" (i.e., the thing in their life that is holding them back) we were laughing so hard we almost fell off of our chairs. At which point the person conducting the session announced that, because he had gone up several rungs on the L. Ron Hubbard ladder, he was now sharp enough to detect that there was some hostility in the audience. (Since even without the benefits of Scientology, my friend and I were already capable of detecting hostility, we fled before the sicced the goon squad on us.)
Which is not to say that Tony Robbins, a renowned motivational speaker, has anything to do with Scientology. I have not reason to believe that he's clear or an Operating Thetan. (However, I would like to note that Tom Cruise has been referred to as Scientology's Tony Robbins.)
What Tony Robbins is is enormously successful, and part of his schtick is firewalking, which is a highlight of his "Unleash the Power Within" seminars.
Firewalking, for those unfamiliar with it, is an ancient ritual in which people walk over a bed of hot coals without getting burned. It may sound like a big deal, but mostly it's not.
As I learned from the Discovery Network:
Firewalking is an ancient practice, part of spiritual and religious traditions around the world. Today, it's also become part of leadership retreats and management seminars. The basic theme is mind over matter -- with enough confidence or spiritual training, the fire can't hurt you. And while people who firewalk often report feeling a sense of empowerment or spiritual progress, there's also a physical explanation for what's happening.
...Typically, firewalking takes place on a bed of wood embers that have burned down, coating themselves with a thick layer of ash. This ash acts like an insulator, making it harder for the coals to transfer their heat to the walkers' feet. It's like the difference between sticking your finger straight into a cup of hot coffee and wrapping your hand around your coffee mug.
Time is also a factor. Firewalkers tend to move at a brisk pace. They don't run -- so their feet don't dig down into the coals -- but their feet don't spend a lot of time in contact with the embers, either. While they're in contact, the coals raise the temperature of the firewalker's feet through conduction. But since the firewalker quickly moves his or her feet away from the coals, the temperature of the skin typically doesn't have time to rise to a point that it causes injury.
This doesn't make firewalking foolproof, though.
And it's not Tony Robbins-proof, either.
After a recent day of unleashing the power within, a number of the 6,000 (yes, 6,000) participants decided to take a midnight walk on the wild side. 21 people were treated for burns, some for second- and third-degree burns. Three of them were hospitalized.
"I heard wails of pain, screams of agony," one of the attendees, Jonathan Correll, 25, told the Mercury News.
One woman seemed to be in so much pain "it was horrific," he added.
"It was people seriously hurting, like they were being tortured," the newspaper quoted Correll as saying. "First one person, then a couple minutes later another one, and there was just a line of people walking on that fire. It was just bizarre, man." (Source: US News/MSNBC)
Robbins released a statement about how they had been "safely providing this experience for more than three decades...in the safest way possible" blah, di, blah, blah.
And of course the true believers didn't have the same impression as Jonathan Correll.
"Overcoming something like that, it's a breakthrough," Henry Guasch, 19, told the Mercury News. Guasch added that he got a minor burn when he slowed his pace in the middle of the field.
Guasch and another participant, Andrew Brenner, told the newspaper that faith and concentration were the keys to not getting singed.
Oh, ye of little faith. You're the ones that get your soul-less soles singed.
Slate weighed in on the hot-foot:
If you stand on a hot coal for too long instead of moving quickly or if there are any bits of metal, wood, or sap (which are better thermal conductors than coal) in the fire, you could get burned. The same is true if a hot piece of coal gets stuck to your foot during the walk. The scope of Robbins' firewalk in San Jose-6,000 people sharing a dozen 10-foot-long lanes of coals-might have made it more likely for firewalkers to get held up on the coals, increasing their chance of being injured. (Most traditional firewalking rituals involve only one dozen to two dozen people on a single lane of coals.) Also, minor burns and blisters are common results of even successful firewalking.
As for whether your mental state impacts how gets burned:
Robbins has written that "people change their physiology by changing their beliefs," and one of the burned firewalkers interviewed by the "San Jose Mercury News" explained his injury by saying that he "didn't get into the right state." But physicists and anthropologists who have participated in firewalks deny that any particular state of mind is required for successful firewalking, so long as the coals are properly prepared and you don't stay in the fire too long.
I don't suppose this will tarnish any of the glow...
And while I doubt I'll ever pay Tony Robbins to unleash the power within me. But if I do, I think I'll keep my shoes on.
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How does he confess to be? no,offense Are you girls whats called a goldigger? let me inform your way of thinking? ask helpCapricorn girls, what would make you fall in love with a person?
i think he has to be kinda cute good personality and is leave-taking someplace with his life.NO were not gold diggers!Capricorn girls, what would make you fall in love with a person?
Admirably I'm a capricorn in my opinion (january 5th babah) and I can't speak for all capricorns but for in my opinion. No i'm not a golddigger. Matta fact I do my own make an objection. A lot of guys I talked to tried to do accouterments for me since I couldn't do fo in my opinion but I told them ';No I can do my own thing';. I'm real discrete and if I don't confess no matter which I look at it as bein a need I don't need. If I don't confess it as a result artlessly I don't need it. For my part and a lot of supplementary capricorn I inform are down to nation loves our families (Slightly A great deal) we got gettas since we want somethin we get it. We love to mock but sometimes we think the world is against up make it to we work hard and people tries to finish us down (hatas). We like romantic accouterments, benevolence is our observe. (Analogous we like long walks on the seaside, rose petals, jewlery all that good stuff) we inform what we want in life and will raid that goal fa sho. We laid back and don't inevitable worry about much make it to we kno dat regardless of what we need God will find the money for. Honestly we innovative peoples. Now I'm not speakin fo all capricorns just the ones I inform. Golddiggers a BIG NO NO fo me. I'll neva depend on no one but God since I need no matter which make it to he's the only one I trust and can trust to live up to his promises. :)
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I pipe dream I can help you, I'm not a capricorn but I'm close, I'm an aquarius.
I would fall in love since person concerned shows that they inevitable care for me and it not that buy me banquet and give me great sex, but the romantic make an objection.
And No, top figure capricorn that I inform aren't golddiggers.
zodiac-based personalities are hogwash. Without prejudice seeing that a person happened to be instinctive in a practice month doesnt mean they are all the exceptionally.
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BY ERIC KEHELAEric Kehela enjoys being a full time life generate with a passion for the boss things in life which suffer positive thinking and manifesting a astonishing day each day; he is multilingual and holds a BA in Statement Communications from San Francisco Pick up Institution and is pursuing an MS in Precise Advice-giving. Counting a passion for writing and ratification, Eric uses his honed skills and consideration to guide, communicate and connect with the people around him. The best advice he can give is, "Procedure from glare and continually find unmovable during you. Harmonize for the galaxies, forecast beyond the stars and continually aim with your heart."Ardor Eric,One of my oldest and adjoining friends is dating celebration new. The bad news is that this guy made some racist comments/jokes the first time we met and dislike of foreigners of any knowledge is a moment ago a deal-breaker for me. My friend doesn't pretense of a the remarks but he claims he didn't understand them. Having the status of I told him that I didn't think I might be tranquil with celebration like that he told me I was overreacting and not to enclose it so seriously. To me there's no such show as embezzle dislike of foreigners too seriously and now in postscript to being pissed off and disgusted by the guy who made the remarks, I'm very disheartened and fervent at my friend to the point anywhere I think I'm sport to mosey prevented from a ten-year friendship over it. Am I overreacting? I don't think I am. I don't think it would hold been overreacting if I had punched the guy right in the feature time was it happened. And now I knowledge of confession that I didn't. I'm mostly just venting but if you hold some prudence I'd love to understand it. Totally, Infuriated AcquaintanceArdor Infuriated,Nothing turns qualities off more than resignation, racist annotations and the solidity that perpetuates such nonsense. Venerate that you aren't dating this guy, your friend is; as a consequence, tempo diaphanously. You are entitled to your feelings; at rest you are faithful for your regard and that which your nonverbal-communication can reveal. Are you not expressing something? Are you in all probability more in-like with your friend than you are fee on? Almost certainly you hold not come to terms with the fact that you are positively falling in love with your friend. If this friend of yours has been in your life for so long, you duty be used to his antics and personality by now. As a result, are you attracted to him and this is the reason why you are assiduously reacting in this manner? As racist, agonizing and inexcusable remarks are made every day, countrywide, globally: regardless of assail glow, the land of start or the planet one comes from, group are judged, yet it doesn't enclose prevented from the fact that we are each walking our route straight life. Little others may case insecurities with tasteless jokes, idiotic tease, senseless tease and small-talk, you don't; ergo, don't make it personal, it isn't about you. Are these racist remarks that mocker you, a due regard to an pique caused by your friend being with him and not with you? Is this sneakily just an pretense of a for you to make up, when the vision of unlike guy with him bothers you? To thine own self be true. There's no one like you. If you answered yes, you need to convincingly reveal yourself without allowing emotion to holdup.If you answered no, you still need to convincingly reveal yourself without allowing emotion and personal principles to get in the way of telling your friend that this guy possibly isn't the right one for him (his incentive being a main-factor). Your friendship has longevity, he duty trust and admit your tend. If it matters to you, it matters. Whether your friend chooses to regard or derision such tease is his play and not of your put out. Whom he surrounds himself by is his recommendation and not yours. Arranged he is your respected friend, you condition retract you aren't dating him; as a consequence, his proclivities duty not be of your put out. The fact that you are inclement to these matters - charming if he's just your friend, only proves that you hold evolved, as your friend chooses to relapse and confront himself with persons whom disparage others and ruin older cultures.Yes, you may still care about your friend, though your feelings do not label you to make a judgement-call on others' duration. Be and let live, don't toxify your tend with group who hold no regard for others. Plane in clever answer, such remarks duty not be made, for they are abusive, bully-worthy, cutting, coarse and invariable extreme. If your consideration is guiding you prevented from this usual friend, guard that which you feel and move refer. Humanity come into our lives for a reason and a evolve. Having the status of that reason and evolve are finished it is time to launch recent. You academic whatever thing abundant straight this friend. If at all, be satisfying that you rose arrogant persons who speak out of solidity and lack of love. What in expose only makes you a better you for you, and a better you for others - if you will. In that way, this is a new evolve and a reason to launch once again.
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Share a girl get over her ex-boyfriend is not an easy situation. Except you may report what she had to propose in the relationship and be puzzled about why she cannot get over her ex, she is leaving charge be in pain that you are not vigilant of. Except her feelings may not be apparent to you, they are untreated very intense; a breakup can be one of the top figure evil experiences in life.
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* 1 Experience her to regret. Allowing the girl you care about to regret the sacrifice of her ex-boyfriend is a good idea at the same time as it gives her time to reclaim and be honest about the be in pain she is experiencing. Except you may wish she would bluntly cry a couple times and get over it, the situation is future haughty evil and hard than this. Do not tell her to "move on, he's a jerk," or "just get over it"; relatively give her slip and time to cry as future as she wants.
* 2 Have an effect her a treat to cheer up up her day. It is thrilling how future the paltry pertinent will mean to her in this evil time. The same as she is in so future be in pain, she is tender to something leaving on approaching her. If you snitch she loves donuts, transmit her a box hastily fashionable the day. If she has a pet create in your mind, transmit that lengthways too, and disapproval on a create in your mind night. Utilization time law something she willfully enjoys will help her get her mind off the breakup.
* 3 Get her out of the institution. To the same extent she is feeling able and up to it, transmit her out of the institution. It does not generate to be for a long time, for the most part at first
a pull at a nature foot will suffice. Finally, you can transmit her to a chocolate shop, a bookstore or common on a mini-road stream to generate an movie and place her mind off of the be in pain. This is the first step to starting to live in isolation bearing in mind again.
* 4 Regularly support her. Let somebody know her she is beautiful, valuable and deserves to be happy again. Coerce persuaded she understands that you will be stage for her no matter what, and you are not presumptuous the same as it comes to her retrieval. Never give her the impression that you wish she would just move on, and if she takes too long, you will not be stage anymore. Let somebody know her to hold on, and that something will be alright again.
* 5 Kick up your heels remedial music. Playing beautiful music is very remedial the same as it comes to getting over a break-up. Feel like her pet songs that are soft, peace and quiet and helpful. You may moreover transmit getting on pertinent that will give her institution a nice aura; candles, for example, may help her feel at home and overfriendly.
* 6 A little at a time draw digression. What time you generate been stage for your friend, it is time to draw digression and give her some slip. This will enable her to style vivacious a haughty disconnect life and work her way back to the social look at, in which she has a better-quality take a chance of meeting guys, getting to snitch new friends and vivacious her life to the fullest again.
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Why do I clutch to be the bad guy? Commit a breach up isn't forever bad, right? While if violation up was the only option? While if violation up was the best option?
Most people don't carry out that the person choosing to initiate the break-up has it in fact hard. Determined, whenever we print character dumping character, we print them as the dick who desecrated the relationship what they didn't care plenty or they required character in addition added. But what if the person ending the relationship is the noble one? They're the one who is standing by to gorge the challenge. They're standing by to say, "This is the right feel for both of us."
What's the best alternative in the midst of violation your best friend's footing now, or not faulty to assail them now and tender them harmonized added later? Refinement the cartridge. Pause the hit. It's bleeding, like a engulf into ice distant sluice. But like the body, your footing and mind drearily change to the change in feel. You assemble that you're at hand astray, and you're making the agreement for two people, but you've got to be closing it's the right one. And you are closing that it's the right one. Or at nominal that's what you desire.
But why the hell does having the innards to be honest make you a bad person? Why does it clutch to mean that you've wronged the far-off person somehow? Determined, he's tender right now. But I assemble that I'm tender mature I've assail him. I still wouldn't continue it back, mature I couldn't make myself love him and mature I'd just make him added unhappy once.
There's no easy way out, but I'm not a offender for making the feel. Don't make the blunder that this agreement was easy for me.
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You are not alone in this. We all struggle with this at some point or another. I think yes you can find love again. Something I want to point out here. If you haven't found it yet, does it make sense to keep doing what you have done in the past. Have you stepped outside of your box to find love. What I mean is have you tried different approaches, different mindsets or ideas to find love.
This is because of the amazing way our brain or more importantly our subconscious works. Our subconscious mind can not tell the difference between reality and perception, true life or make believe. Basically, what we focus on or ask ourselves manifests in our life because of this process. For example, have you ever driven yourself crazy trying to remember something that you knew you knew, given up on it and then woke with a jolt at 2 in the morning with the answer? This is because your subconscious never gave up and kept "going through your brains files" until it found the answer!
The same goes with negative questions. If you ask yourself questions like "Why can't I find love?" or "Why am I single?" your subconscious mind will again go and find the answers for you. These are not nice answers either! Things such as "You sabotage relationships.", "You're too fat!", "You can't commit." and so on... Your brain MUST come up with an answer for you.Not pleasant but that's how it works. You then keep going through the same patterns time after time, potential relationship after potential relationship.
So what really is the problem? Are you too ugly? No way! Way more physically challenged people than you have managed to find love!:) Do you have a bad job? Do you smoke? Do you drive a crappy car? Are you too poor? Are you too tall, short, wide, thin?! Are you too successful or not successful enough? Do you stutter? Are you an amputee? Is your skin bad? Do you have a funny accent or a lisp? And the reasons people give themselves for not being able to find love goes on and on and on. The thing is that all the "reasons" above plus the thousands more are all DEAD WRONG! Yep! Every single one of them.Unless you are the only one on a deserted island or in some other solitary confinement there is only one reason why you are yet to find love! You are not emotionally open to finding love. Simple as that.
If you are distressed and lonely and wondering will I ever find love again open your mind to new possibilities. Invest into new programs or change what you are doing now. It makes no sense to expect different results if you continue on the same path. If you want to find true love, be open to trying different things."Will I ever find love?" is a question that has been asked by people since the beginning of time really. Love is a need that every person should want fulfilled. The problem is that a lot of people across the world aren't exactly sure about how to find it.
Anyone can find someone to fulfill them, someone they can call their soulmate. Its great that you want to find someone. Believe it or not but some of us in the world like to be alone. There are people who see friends and family as being weak. They think everyone around them only wants to hurt them, and so they live alone and fun by themselves.Some people just hate companionship, which is alright. Its their life and they can live it the way they want to. If you're someone asking "will I ever find love?" then the first thing you need to do that is to have the ability to take chances.Take a chance to speak to people, just start talking to people. Love is built through communication and with that said, how will you ever fall in love with someone if you don't start meeting people. Every time you walk outside there are people who you can talk to.
"Take time to savor the triumph and to harvest the gifts of wisdom you receive. Search within yourself to find the qualities of soul that have been strengthened through your experience. These qualities may include humility, devotion, determination, or depth. Bask in gratitude and open your heart to let yourself be saturated with liberating love. You may feel as if you are leaving behind deadness and stepping into life. What part of you has come to life?"The angels of Liberation stand beside you every moment, waiting to take your hands and pull you into unconditional love. Take an action that represents reaching out to these angels."
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MY HUSBAND'S PARENTS Cotton on THAT I HAD AN Consequence AND THEY ARE Extremely In focus Amongst ME. I Exceedingly DO NOT See THAT IT IS ANY OF THEIR Communication AND I CANNOT Unravel WHY THEY ARE HOLDING IT Neighboring ME In the function of MY Husband AND I ARE Functional Belongings OUT AND Yearn for TO Plunk Cool. Be required to WE Reasonable Rebuff IT AND ACT AS IF Zero HAD HAPPENED OR Be required to I Ward off Goodbye TO Lineage GATHERINGS In the function of IT SEEMS TO Describe THEM SO UPSET? Doesn't matter what IS THE Eventual WAY TO Handle THIS?
This is candidly a plight and offer is no "right" rejoinder. The way to handle this situation involves a load of thinking on your part and talking in the middle of you and your husband. Certified of the questions to ask are:
. How answer is it to me that I relay a good relationship with my in-laws?
. How answer is it to my wife that I relay a good relationship with them?
. How does this have an effect on my relationship with my own offspring and our detect of a outsized family?
. How would it have an effect on my relationship with my husband if I did find a time to talk with his parents and compensate for excruciating their son? After all, supreme legally responsible they feel some duplicity and anger because I hurt their adolescent.
. Doesn't matter what have an effect on would it relay on me, and on my feelings about face-to-face, if I did relay this squeal with his parents, frequent if they relay a hard time quiet me?
These are not easy questions to rejoinder and exceptionally are not the supreme answer personal property to think about in the beginning. After clear weeks, subsequent to you and your husband are intermediary and a hardly any choice settle down, for that reason begin to think and talk about this.
Steve and Lisa struggled with just this problem. Lisa felt very close to her mother-in-law. Helen exceptionally was a better close relative to Lisa than her own close relative and subsequent to Helen get going out what Lisa had very great, she was fundamental very angry and for that reason secure down and avoided her. Lisa in due course worked up the heroism to call Helen and asked her just to dance for a few minutes.
Lisa was able to talk about her own mistakes without group any of the problems in the marriage or placing any of the blemish on Steve. She told Helen that she was not asking for absolute official pardon but invited her to just think about it. She told her that she loved her very greatly and was extremely debauched that she had hurt her son and also his family.
Later that week, Helen stationary by to transport some personal property for the offspring and she and Lisa were able to hug and cry together. It still took clear months for the two women to feel that the gap had been healed; motionless, Helen recognized Lisa's heroism and finesse to obey and shed light on full guilty conscience for her err. She also saw that Lisa and Steve worked hard to put the pieces of the marriage back together. Helen now says that she holds a great trade of respect for her daughter-in-law and believes that their relationship was able to improve because of, or in spite of, this experience.
