PUBLISHER: Dutton Grown-up (Grand 9, 2011)ISBN-10: 052595225XISBN-13: 978-0525952251GENRE: Communicate Romance HopeCLASSIFICATION: Grown-up BlendFORMAT: Hardcover, 352 pages (I read the ebook exemplar of ARC)Give to is just something about Garwood's men that just makes you want to rip them off the pages and wrinkle them into the real world. *sigh* If only.;)Individual girls store all the chance. In Ellie Sullivan's collection it's all bad. Stalked at age 11 by a 17 go out with old psychopath and departed for dead, she is a survivor. Serene looking over her sway once all these living she's erudite to be cautious and go on animate knowing he's still out exhibit anywhere. Now she's the aptitude blunt of a hit-man. In the sin place at the sin time she witnessed the firing of an FBI detail and the killers mean to make balanced no witnesses are departed. Max Daniels is the FBI detail assigned to pad her. He is totally (in Ellie's opinion) not the finished man for her. He lives in new-found native land, has a genuine job, and doesn't enfold in top-quality than a painstaking relationship. He's also devilishly noticeable. Why is it we perfectly want what we shouldn't? Perform, romance, and hope with a touch humor are ample into this one. I fair and square loved it. If you're a Garwood fan like me you won't be discontented. I store yet to meet a book of hers I didn't like. Yes, I'll now be import a copy following the book hits the shelves. It'll be leave-taking on my curator opinion. The ebook exemplar just won't do. I gave this one 5 OUT OF 5 STARS.
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Stephy Mouthful is a Hongkong singer and actor. Her latest sexy illustrate is La Lingerie. Extra casters in that illustrate is Janice Man, J.J. Jia, Yee Tong.
Stephy Mouthful has a good relationship with Hongkong Musician Alex Fong.
Stephy Mouthful Contour and Biography:
Chinese Name:
English Name: Stephy Mouthful Lai Yun
Date Of Birth: October 15th, 1983
Engine capacity Of Birth: Hong Kong
Weight: 48 kg
Height: 166 cm
Blood Type: O
Shoe Size: 8 (US)
Interests: Playing tennis, before a live audience and dancing
Languages: Cantonese, English and Mandarin
Entered entertainment by a modelling company
Music Company: Golc Request
Favourite Singers: Faye Wong Cheung Ai Ga
Favourite Colour: glum
ALBUMS
Cookies:
Agile Wedding anniversary (2002)
Sprightly Christmas (2002)
Baby Cookies:
All the Perfectly (2003)
4 Fiddle (2004)
4 in Dear (2004)
Solo:
Have a shower Stephy (2005)
Stephy Delight (2006)
Dating Stephy (2007) NEW!
Ride
Aqua Heroes (2003)
Cinema
Nine Girls and a guts (2002)
Appearance 100% (2003)
Dragon Ironic (2003)
Dating Departure (2004)
My Toffee (2004)
Wedding Along with a Fool (2006)
Dear @ Beforehand Facts (2006)
Dear Is Not All Approximately (2007) NEW!
2007: In Dear with the Disappeared () Starring: Stephy Mouthful, Shawn Yue, Fortifying Yu
2008: L For Dear L For Fabrication () Starring: Stephy Mouthful, Alex Fong, Leila Tong, Alice Tzeng, Terry Wu, Miki Yeung. Cameos: Linda Chung, Sammy Leung, Natalie Tong, Wu Jing
2008: La Lingerie () Starring: Stephy Mouthful, Janice Man, Ronald Cheng, Kathy Tong
2008: Nobody's Build up () Starring: Stephy Mouthful, Kary Ng, Sammy Leung, Chelsea Tong
From the book, "Will I Ever Be Good Enough?" [read this if you are an ACON: Adult Child of a Narcissist]
I am 45 years old and realizing I have more to break free from when it comes to my mother and the view of myself. Being middle-aged and "afraid" of your mother is rather silly isn't it? I have seen blogs though where some 60 somethings admit the same. Keep in mind us Aspies are late-bloomers. I am realizing at this advanced age, how behind I got on so many things. One thing I am asking myself, is "Can I pull off a turn around at this late age?"
One part of the healing from a narcissistic parent, is realizing that validation you yearned for is never going to be there. THIS FANTASY THAT ONE DAY MY MOTHER, WOULD PAT MY HEAD, AND SAY "I AM SO SORRY!" IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. SHE IS NEVER GOING TO RUN TO THE FOOT OF ONE OF MY HOSPITAL BEDS, AND CRY TEARS AND BRING ME CUPS OF TEA. MY SISTER IS NEVER GOING TO HUG ME, AND SAY "I LOVE YOU" OR TELL HER CHILDREN, "AUNT PEEP IS SO FUN!" EVEN IF THE FEW TIMES I SAW THEM, I'D LOVE TO DO ART LESSONS WITH THEM. I SUPPOSE ONE PART OF GROWING UP EVEN IN LATTER ADULTHOOD, IS ACCEPTING WHAT "IS", NOT WHAT YOU WISH THINGS WERE.
One may ask how long can you cry over your mother and father never loving you? Dr Laura, would say "GET OVER IT!" and I read her book 15 years ago, that said just that! I didn't want to be one of those people laying in a corner weeping till I was 60 that my mommy and daddy hated me. Some observers would say, "You can't blame your parents for the way your life turned out!" Thats true, but we can admit some of the influences and history. My parents didn't destroy the US economy or make newspapers obsolete affecting my husband's career, or invent autoimmune diseases after all. I chose my own professions and even my own religion.
While I discussed my past abuse with my two best friends for years who by the way both had narcissistic mothers of their own to contend with, for some reason middle-age brought some kind of odd crises where I couldn't ignore what was happening to me anymore and where disrespect and covert stuff was being carried into late adulthood.
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During my 20s, enough walk-outs ended overt verbal stuff, but I couldn't stop any of the covert stuff no matter what I did! What a misery! I was low contact and only saw the woman on average 6 times a year for 4-7 hours, but so much craziness was stirred behind the scenes, so much mean things said to me when no one was in the room. I knew there never would be any respect, there never would be any change. She didn't care to hear my side of the story she only cared about her own. Who wants to spend years and years defending yourself to people where INVALIDATION is the given?
Even there I hung in far longer because I did truly need help a few times. A few times, years ago, after the abandoned years in the ghetto, she was generous, but oh what a pound of flesh. I only asked for help when incredibly desperate and there were plenty of times, I did not and went without food, medicine or other necessary items. My 20s, I was fully cut off, so there was no asking for any favors so this was more in my early 30s. She never neglected to throw it in my face either, and how lack of financial blessings were supposedly all my own fault.
[picture source "deviant art"]
The word "LOSER" was duct-taped to my forehead pretty early on as if I had spent my teens smoking pot and getting drunk every night instead of studying and working at a local restaurant. It stayed there, even during the time I graduated from college and was an art teacher at an alternative school because I didn't "make enough money". When I told her, I had to go on disability, she was personally offended and said, "Why do you have to do that, so you can "laze" around the house all day?". I had been in the ER 10 times that year for breathing problems and hospitalized at least for a total of 6 weeks. Even my job had demoted me to night shift because I could no longer handle the rigors of day shift.
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What a set up to always feel in the wrong, to always feel like nothing I did was ever right. This is the set-up that leaves many adult children of narcissists carrying incredible burdens and being open to the predatory natures of others, as they seek to people please and walk on eggshells in their own lives knowing that every mistake supposedly makes them a bad person.
With narcissist parents one is never allowed to make mistakes, and if you do, it means you are "at fault". If I dropped something as simple as a wrench helping my father do his constant projects around the house, he would scream, "There's no such things as accidents!". Everything was a failure and your "choice". Imagine the day I dropped a can of paint at the age of 10 and how that panned out. Any clumsiness was not poor Aspie motor control but failure!
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I was trained that if bad things happen to me, that they are MY FAULT. This means when my old cars broke down in high school, that it was MY FAULT, and not the car or it's broken hose or 25 year old carburetor. All the resultant screaming over any mishap proved this so. This means when bad things happened a little voice inside me says, "It's your fault". I am still struggling with this now. Car break down? My fault. Husband lost his job? My fault. Sick and leg is infected? My fault. I think about that nowadays, what a mind screw that all was. I was never prepared for resiliency or for failure. How does a young person grow along side of people who never admit one failure? How do you develop as a person and how to work through set-backs?
One of my nurses laid it out flat to me this last month while I had nursing care: "being sick is NOT your fault. Stop blaming yourself!" They know I try my best with the exercises, the eating, figured out how much of my body was fluids. People are born with bodies that do not work like others. Some die young because of this. Others live to be middle aged like me struggling for years.
I'll take responsibility for things I did do wrong, and there's been mistakes a long the way, but normal people make mistakes, they are vulnerable and give in to manipulation or have their own personality foibles they struggle with but this is a burden I want to throw off me, like a 2 ton weight to be FREE. Let God determine what I did wrong or didn't do wrong. The court of the narcissists is closed!
I'll be honest in many times in life, I prayed to win the Lotto, to have husband have a book or other publishing event hit it big {I tried to write and publish a book too back in the 90s} so we could come into our own, and not be the lowly ones in the room. Who wants to be seen as a worm, no matter how poor they are? Who wants to be middle aged, and on their knees? It's sad, and I have to admit one of the most painful things about my life. Even now being no contact my mind is plagued with images of me behind a shopping cart, showing up in rags before her door. This too came from the "training", she often yelled at me, that I would end up behind a shopping cart, homeless and bereft and getting everything I deserved! And obviously I have been pretty close to that shopping cart without wanting to be! Add to that the air of superiority, that I wrote about before, and it was a BAD MIXTURE! It's time to claim dignity!
My prayers now are to never be in the streets or desperate. I don't have the health or youth to handle losing my apartment or living in a dangerous area without needed items like I did in my 20s. My husband says he worries about me always thinking everything is going to be ripped away even when things are going good. This is the crucible it all was born in.
Then add in the fact I live in a society where everything that happens to a person in one's life is seen as a choice. I never chose bad lungs, infertility, severe obesity, or an infected leg. Our society is inherently narcissistic in it's winner take all and losers deserve what they get ethos. The King and Queen of the Mountains don't care about the suffering of anyone else!
The self esteem problems I face are no mystery to me. I know I am working through some serious stuff. I still laugh about that one nay-sayer who wrote on here, "You have issues!". Of course I do! I am in the midst of validating myself and developing long over-due strengths.
Old age, has brought some better ability to take care of myself, and get my needs met, and not take abuse and draw boundaries, but oh what a set-up a narcissistic mother [and father] can do to a person life-long! Trained to excuse yourself just for living and to put all your needs aside for the narcissistic parent, it can take 20 years of adulthood before you realize that your own needs and desires matter just as much as anyone else's. This doesn't mean be cruel to people or be selfish but holding healthy boundaries that never were developed as you grew up.
I know my mother never approved me. I supposed a rational side of me thinks, "Well you were not normal, you were fat and Aspie to the hilt and then as a adult got sicker, and fatter". There was no showing me off to the neighbors and there was this later focus on keeping me secret and hidden away especially after my giant weight gain. One thing we must remember with narcissists appearance is everything. No one is interested in deep explanations or intellectual forays on the science of obesity. All she cared about was being embarrassed by having such a fat daughter. Her friends would even tell me how horrified she was by my weight. Sadly many agreed with her. I didn't enjoy my very personhood stripped away. I feel for any other overweight person who may contend with this. Even if you are extremely fat, you can find beauty. You are beautiful. You will and can find people who will tell you that you are and I have!
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When one gets to a certain point, they no longer are in the mode of making excuses for who and what they are. I'm done with that. No more begging for acceptance. No more blaming myself for everything that happened in the universe. Accepting where I have been and how I have gotten there. No more waking up feeling depressed because I am five hundred pound peep. Seizing what I can of the life I have left. Break free of that scapegoat training where self blame rules. Redefining myself and who I am. Thank God for my love of art as a young person that allowed me to at least see outside the prison walls. Thank God for my relationship with Him that is allowing me to throw the padlock away and walk into the light.
Lonely Holidays and the Lie That You Reap What You Sow
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JERKS did well with women was what
women were crazy.
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to be attracted to jerks.
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these guys had something Moreover leaving
for them, so that they can get Digression
with being jerks and still lug women
attracted.
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testing, and I can tell you the TRUTH:
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the women, that it's clear to the women that the
guys I imagine will card ANY usage from
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than unlike woman who is not as attractive.
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me, then hating me what all I'm good at is
sex. As well as, you'll keep coming back to me
what all I'm good at is sex and I'm odious
at listening to your problems.
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than they lug been getting all their life.
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afterward over Round the houses relatively than Example
it straight.
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the lines.
"In in the midst of the lines" is Roundabout.
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TRIES the same direct feat, so the mind
gets DESENSITIZED to it.
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about saying they are all great catches.
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aged than that the guy clout be just
telling a lie to impress her.
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that you are funny, if you are funny.
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your Cryptogram.
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but it is just one pitch to success, what
as you will see:
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women whether the women are in tanned shops,
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4. "Be surprised Weight" IN Sphere Past Best JERKS
So let's say you are chatting to a woman everyplace,
and some loser/jerk who has oblivion better to do
tries to interrupt in your chat, what he wants
to try to get this woman now that he sees YOU
do something it, what he didn't lug the innards to do it
before he saw YOU do it.
Most of these types of guys are guys who lug
no girlfriends and couldn't get one if they tried
what they are so offhand minded, but they
just can't stand to see someone Moreover get any
have a disagreement with women, so As well as they hurriedly
get aggravated.
Fitting, a lot of guys would correctly Prize the
Be surprised way too a great deal gratitude by in harmony
ACKNOWLEDGING his apparition.
So let's say the jerk comes into your conversation
with the woman and makes a indication to her like:
"Hey, wanna lug some Best fun?"
A lot of guys would be flummoxed for a sound roundabouts.
They would say something to the guy like,
"What?", or they clout say, 'Who are you?",
or in harmony, "Who the heck are you?"
The very ACT of RESPONDING at all is
a gentle of CONDITIONED wave, but
it doesn't mean the jerk DESERVES that
wave.
Unbiased Fail to attend HIM Satisfactorily.
If you Utterly cut him out of your reality,
the woman you are with will Particularly Methodically
totally cut him out too, in the role of it's clear
he had Beneath innards than you, and is an intensity
tick that sucks off of aged people.
Nothing Changing with totally IGNORING
him, but a lot of guys WOULD give him
Guaranteed attention, what they feel that
they are Superficial to say Something.
SAYS WHO?
The "nice guy" federation?
And if the jerk KEEPS on trying to chat
to her, or to try to talk to you to snare
you from her or to calamity your vibe with her,
just Rearrange THE Young woman Digression with you,
put her by the arise and Cylinder.
If the guy Chiefly keeps up at it, then
HE is lowering his own exhaust as he is
selection that he Persuaded sees YOU
as having the ability to get what HE wants.
Meanwhile, he HASN'T got what he wants.
The woman SEES all this, and registers it
Considerable in her obligatory, as this jerk behaving
in a way that is fighting fit transmission he is of low
intrinsic exhaust and therefore Plain.
And so habitually, these jerks will lug ONE
feat leaving for them, be it bodybuilding,
or reduced, or high trajectory in academics, or
some daydream car or bonus job, or some
gentle of connection to someone, Whatever.
It doesn't matter, what matters is that it is perpetually
Manifest that they are relying on that ONE
feat for their manner of ego and confidence.
And then, it Eternally COMES UP afterward
they chat to a woman.
So you will follow the guy trying to wear
an manage without be over top to show his brute force,
or he will drop into the chat that he is
from some high academy, or he will
bring up some bonus club he is
part of, etc.
AWESOME!
This sets him up for total disfigurement.
All you need to do is cut that Increase
of Counterfeit Elegance and he will speedily
back away with his litigant in the midst of his legs.
How do you do this?
By EXAGGERATING whatever the heck
he is using to try to "pass by" himself.
If he's trying to use his highly seasoned Size, then
Shower at this. Buy him to occupation for you. Buy
him you think it's so evil that upper limit bodybuilders
work so hard and don't get rewarding heaps.
By Sinuous HIM SO Future of what he
Requests he can get, i.e. Rationale,
it FLOODS his circuits and he isn't certain
what the heck is leaving on.
It also makes him comply with that almost certainly Everyone
is on to him, that he is correctly Hugely Imperfect
Elegance if he doesn't lug his one imaginary feat,
in this pattern, his brute force.
If a guy is using his scholar brains to
try to show off to the girl, Make plain his
manner of scholar brains, tell him you
SUCKED at campus and wished you can be
like him.
Evoke, the consistency these guys ARE jerks
in the first place, is they still haven't serious
that it's their Insecurity that is screwing
them up!
Stock them a HIT of legalization on the
ONE Line of reasoning they use to hitch themselves
up, and they as one get their circuits
FRIED with leftover, but they Any then
omen if almost certainly you're screwing with them,
and it makes them Be trained for a sec that
almost certainly Everyone is onto their uncertainty.
Of administer, the best feat is to just Fail to attend
AND Inception with the girl, but if you lug
to, you do the bonus.
Is that gentle of wave to a jerk somehow
shifting itself? Not certainly. It's just you
TARGETING the issue Faithfully.
In the role of you lug read roundabouts is a glance into
the Best World of attracting women.
It's NOT about being a jerk.
It's about expanding your power in every way,
yet In need you being evil to Character.
It's about learning the extent of how things work.
It's about swiftly insights into women.
And it's about making your Sense Operate
YOU, relatively than YOU serving your Sense.
Right this gentle of man is overpoweringly
seductive to a woman, she can't Comfort but
be attracted. It station too deep into her
carnal manner of you being all MAN, all
"CAVE-MAN survival of the fittest",
all Ancient.
Her wave to this gentle of man is not
In your right mind. She doesn't Anticipate about it.
She just FEELS it, and she feels it
Despondently with lunatic prize open.
It's Creature, she will feel a Suffer,
not just a "want" to be with you,
but a evocatively obsessive Suffer.
And if you're reading this right now,
you can fighting fit see that attracting
women has so Future to do with everywhere
you are coming from on a deep Family unit
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Till adjacent time,
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"To be "Dead" or be a "LEFITIST" is to live a lie.
You hug supplementary people indigence pay for your stuff. You hug by the fact you were untutored you are entitled to strong load. And perfect in additional times you are brought up to make out such an engorged ego of yourself, you riot on supplementary humans to act against their own best interests.
For example, men don't like fat chicks.
The fact that that application right now is getting "OOO! YOU SHOULDN'T Laying down of arms Theoretical THAT! THAT'S NOT NICE!" charitable of counter only proves my point.
Is it true?
Yes.
Is it politically incorrect?
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Dissimilar example, select. Say you're untutored into select or you earn your own select.
THIS
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Moreover select you make out fiscal accredit, financial accredit, health check, and a perfect agreeable life. A person indigence want to be fatty. It's so existent it needs no persuade skirmish.
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In inference all the hard work and be penny-pinching with the piece of information that goes into villainzing what is only human nature can fall under one single category or "GUN" of the deceased.
Damage the reputation of.
The deceased uses moan about and "SHAMING Language" for one reason and one reason only - they are lucidly fuzzy, so they essential to "Uneasiness" what is "Expert" or what is real. To the fantastically degree the deceased lives in a world that is not based in reality or the reality standard, they make out to "Tamper with Information" and the best way to do that is to happy or unlimited brainwash people into thinking the disappointment of what is true and the disappointment of what is in their best interests.
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I researcher, "yes."
"Why?"
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I may possibly tell I annoyed her, she either didn't hug state was a measure problem or just didn't like my republican sounding savor.
"So your vow is to work as lush as possible?"
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Yes its possible.Just like all other actions taken by a person cheating is governed by certain psychological needs. Sometimes a person would cheat to fulfill a certain psychological need and not because he hates his current partner.Of course some people might cheat because they are not satisfied with their current relationships but a large number of people CAN LOVE SOMEONE AND CHEAT ON HIM.
WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT
Psychological needs such as desperate need for attention or wanting to prove to himself that he is still attractive might force a person to cheat.There are some people out there who do nothing but trying to make as many people fall in love with them as they can. Those people feel they are desirable when they find people running after them. As soon as those people settle and become in a relationship they lose their source of power and so feel like cheating to regain their importance.Others chase the chemicals that fade after the first stage of the relationship ends, those people mistakenly believe that they don't love their partners anymore because they don't understand that the disappearance of affection is a normal stage of the relationship. (see Why do men cheat)Those people also become attracted to the idea of having a secret relationship as its usually involves higher emotional intensity than their current relationship.A research has pointed out that secret relationships or the ones surrounded by dangers involve high levels of excitement and emotional intensity. This was also one of the reasons twilight movie became popular, what's more emotionally intense than loving a dangerous vampire?
SHOULD YOU SPEND YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE WHO CHEATED ON YOU?
This would strongly depend on the reason behind the cheating.
If someone cheated on you because he needed to feel confident or worthy then you carry part of the blame and living with him could still be possible.If the person cheated on you because he wanted other personality traits that you don't have then you might want to reconsider the relationship.lifecoach24 is not a complicated medical website nor a boring online encyclopedia but rather a place where you will find simple, to the point and effective information that is backed by psychology and presented in a simple way that you can understand and apply.
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I don't really understand why I think of death and dying these days. Dying is the only sure thing in this world and yet the very thought puts one off. But somehow the process of ageing and dying of natural causes seems acceptable. But when young lives are lost sometimes for no reason or fault on their part one does feel depressed. I recently heard of two young men, newly married and sole bread winners of their family, who lost their lives in road accidents. Both were driving motorcycles given to them as part of the dowry demanded by their parents. Both belonged to the lower middle class. One worked as a daily wager under a contractor and the other sold dosa, idli in a push cart. After the release of Dhoom and Dhoom-2 rash driving has become a fashion among young men. But in the cases mentioned the former was driving at full speed in a highway and failed to notice a sharp bump and was simply thrown off. He was at least responsible for what happened. The second man was crushed to death by a speeding lorry trying to turn at an intersection with a golchakkar (roundabout).
We in India always look for the easy way out. I don't know about other states but definitely in Jharkhand and probably in Bihar passing a driving test is not mandatory and license is often issued without the candidate ever setting his eyes on the issuing officer. Till some 10 years back the motor training institutes charged an additional fee for the license and once the 2 week's training was over it was assumed that he/she automatically qualified for the license. Thankfully the practice has been stopped and a kind of mock test is conducted and I haven't heard of anyone's application being rejected or of a person who failed the test. I sometimes wonder whether accidents would be reduced if issue of license were not so easy.
Then there are train accidents. I do not doubt the efficiency of our engine drivers. They are responsible for the safety of passengers and are properly trained. But as in the case of a father ferrying his son to school in a jeep who did not exercise caution while crossing an unmanned railway crossing, we Indians are always in a hurry. Signals annoy us. We do get a kick out of overtaking from the wrong side and ignoring traffic rules. Smooth flow of traffic is an alien concept and I saw it for the first time in USA. No honking, no overtaking and all commuters kept to their lanes. Pedestrians are treated with care and motorized vehicles stop at intersections whether there is someone crossing the road on foot or not. I went to a Labor Day sale and my daughter found a parking space with great difficulty. Such was the crowd. But people were relaxed. No jumping queues or any such thing. It took us 45 minutes to pay the bill at the check out counter but we did not hear any one grumble or mumble.
Is over population the cause for our insensitivity towards rules? Why are we always so hyper? Even at the doctor's clinic we wish to push ourselves and are allowed to go first. Are not the others patients too? Young lives are lost due to this tearing hurry, rules are broken, palms are greased but lessons are seldom learnt.
Then there is the other kind of accident. One in which the stove bursts and a young bride is burnt to death. Or a young girl with a promising career is found hanging from the ceiling and the law finds her husband innocent. And another girl equally beautiful and with an even better career marries him. Parents in their haste to get rid of their burden - read daughters - don't even bother to verify the details of the first wife's death. Social boycott of the boy and his family is unheard of. It is whispered that the girl was somehow at fault and we all tend to believe the boy's version. Some 20 years back a girl known to me died of a mysterious cause. She worked in a reputed company and her colleagues insisted on a post mortem. The girl's father backed out saying that he had 2 more daughters to get married and he could not afford to antagonize his son in law who had connections in high places. Another girl from the same town married him and walked out of the marriage saying that he was schizophrenic and it was impossible to live with him. The man later committed suicide and the family admitted that he was indeed mildly schizophrenic. Proper treatment could have saved him as well as the girl married to him. I don't blame the boy as much as I'd blame his family and the parents of the girls who married him. It is generally agreed that an alcoholic, gambler or anyone with personality disorders would be okay if they got themselves a wife. The truth is that with a wife to bear the brunt of his behavioral problems others in the family can breathe easy.
Sorry to sound pessimistic. I cannot help it. Young lives are not only important to their families but to the nation as a whole. We lose them to accidents, illness and insensitive social practices like dowry. When they manage to survive we let them become terrorists and anti socials who in turn take away more lives. And we accept all this as fate or destiny.
I end with the story of my colleague Dr. SP. She was unmarried and lived alone in the top floor of a house in the heart of the city. Her family lived in Ranchi. During Holi we get a break of a week and very often around the same time Good Friday, Easter and Ram Navami are celebrated. So if a few days of casual leave can be managed one can take around 10 to 12 days off. SP had told her land lady that she would be leaving for Ranchi early next morning and would return after about 10 days. So when one did not see her during the days that followed no one really missed her. A week later I came to know through a neighbor that the local papers carried the news of her death under mysterious circumstances and it was only on account of foul smell emanating from her room that people became suspicious. No one had any clue about the motive for murder. The saddest part was that while all of us in college mourned her death, her parents could only think of the amount she would get as provident fund and were glad that just a few months back she had given her father's name as nominee. When asked to file a case her father politely refused saying that it was not possible for him to attend court in Jamshedpur since he lived in Ranchi, We never heard from him after that. SP was a smart girl with a brilliant career and a bright future. We often think of her although it is more than 15 years since she died. We try to figure out the motive behind her death and miss her in our own way. We heard that she had booked a flat in Ranchi and had drawn some heavy amount to pay the builder and the killer had perhaps been tipped off by the bank staff. But these are just speculations and nothing was proved.
Had the judiciary been faster in deciding on cases such as these people like SP's parents would perhaps have the motivation to file a case and the unsuspecting public would know the cause and be more cautious.
If only girls are allowed to offer their opinion during marriage negotiations and the dowry menace done away with............
If only parents thought twice before sending their wards to school in overloaded vans and three wheelers...........
If only traffic rules were drilled into our youngsters and breakers of these rules punished and penalized................
If only the state and central governments could ensure education for all children of the school going age............
If our movies stopped depicting law breakers as heroes..........
If only the value of every life lost in this manner were realized by every one of us...........
Finally if every mother could be like Neelam Katara and fight for justice..........
I wonder if I am asking for too much to happen in too little time.
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Hey again, my loyal or maybe non-existent readers. So heres another entry, basically 1 approach today.
Well if you look at the number of fails this is quite counterproductive if my goal is to be the greatest pickup artist of all time. But in fact my real goal and the best I can do, is just hit my maximum # of approaches in a given day, or once Im good with that I will put myself in social atmospheres and let my true game shine.
So of course with a mere 1 approach out of 7 that is very bad... we should wonder if its due to lack of opportunity, pickiness, shyness. I think of course fear or pessimism could be the root of my failure, ill see girls and figure, well hey I dont have a good chance of getting a #.
#1
Approached some girl on the bus asked if shes in college/university. She was probably In high school though she appeared flirty. She was like flipping her hair and I presumed she wanted my attention.
Me: hey, I saw you sitting there and I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi.
Girl: oh..(No real thank you I think)
Me: so are you in college/university?
Girl:no
..I ended the conversation there, she couldve said shes in high school, or shes working now, but I was nervous and she looked young.
Me: okay, I thought you were older, you have a good one.
#fails
#1 girl walking towards me..I had my headphones on listening to trance music... Fail. Probably should lose the headphones if you want to be the greatest of all time.
#2 2 girls get on the bus probably 2 sisters, but not flirty, and they seemed a bit too big for my liking.
#3 girl crossing road?
Asian or brown ish, she was during my lunch break I saw her crossing the roadfthe other way. I shouldve done anything to cross paths with her, including "change my mind" about where I am heading.
#4 brown chick walking by..seemed upset gave me dirty look. She was somewhat cute, maybe it was her time of the mouth or who knowss. But I cannot think the rest of the female race is as lame as her!
#5 brown? Latina? chick with friends, while I was on the phone. Well Ive gotten off the phone to hit on girls before unfortunatley a potential date slipped through my fingers due to one I am not too much interesyed in.
#6 asian girl..at the bus station..didnt approach her, she seemed cute.. This one seemed okay I guess and I was bored waiting for my train to go to a not so nice place so I shouldve gone for it anyways.
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I love you :D
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We're basically devouring any and every teeny-tiny bit of information we can get about Doctor Who's 50th anniversary.
And the thought of David Tennant returning for episode in all his besuited, Conversed glory is one that makes us particularly tingly with excitement.
So imagine how much we jumped up and down on reading his latest interview with SFX magazine, in which he reveals that being asked to return was no surprise whatsoever, that the Tenth Doctor is a little different on being paired up with his successor, and refuses to give even the mildest of spoilers.
Here's the transcript, courtesy of the SFX website:
SO HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE BACK IN THE ROLE THAT MADE YOU A SCI-FI ICON?
"Well it is all done - I've filmed everything. Now I just have to wait for everyone to see it. But, yes, it is lovely to have returned to something that meant so much to me and that was such a happy time. I am grateful that it was a happy time again. There is always that danger of going back to something and it does not turn out quite how you remember it, but that was not the case with this..."
WAS IT EASY ENOUGH FOR YOU TO SLIP BACK INTO THE ROLE?
"Kind of. When there is more than one of you, as is the case this time, it becomes a slightly different character. The Doctor tends to lead every scene he is in and when you are sharing that out it becomes slightly different. You have a new relationship with that aspect of the character and that gives you fresh challenges to work on. But it was really good fun actually - and that was a big part of what I enjoyed about this."
Were you surprised to be asked back?
"No, I can't say I was surprised. There is a precedent to this, isn't there? It has happened a few times down the years so it was never out of the realms of possibility that it would happen for the 50th anniversary. I was more surprised about how long it took to come through. It actually took quite a long time. There had been a sketchy little conversation about it - and there was a long gap before I got the call. For a long time I was starting to think it was never going to happen - so there was an element of surprise there. But the general concept was something I always expected."
WHAT CAN THE FANS EXPECT FROM THE 50TH ANNIVERSARY EDITION? ANY SPOILERS YOU CAN SHARE?
"I think it is very unwise of me to tell any group of dedicated fans what to expect from this - or to spoil the fun [laughs]. In the end, it is going to be up to them to decide if they like this or not, but I don't want to give anything away."
DID YOU FEEL ANY PRESSURE ABOUT DOING THIS, KNOWING THAT THE FANBASE FOR DOCTOR WHO IS SO HUGE? IT IS YOU AND MATT SMITH TOGETHER - THIS IS GOING TO BE A HUGE GEEK-GASM FOR A LOT OF FANS...
"Well I suppose [laughs]. I just hope people will be excited by it. But I do not think this is necessarily exclusive, in terms of who it will appeal to. Doctor Who has managed to be a big success over the past few years by being very accessible to everyone. We have never been about going for a highly particular audience - although that audience is the reason Doctor Who has lived for 50 years - but rather to have a very broad appeal. I think that aspect is something that people will feel is quite evident in this special as well."
FINALLY, SHOULD THE NEXT INCARNATION OF THE DOCTOR BE FEMALE?
"You are not going to get a quote from me on that. It will come back and bite me on the arse whatever I say!" [laughs].
Jenna Coleman has previously teased that the interaction between the three doctors we'll see in the episode - Matt Smith, Mr Tennant and John Hurt - is "great".
She told Access Hollywood: "The whole episode is a massive celebration and it's kind of about celebrating the last 50 years of Doctor Who, with a massive team of us all thrown in there, but it's quite a transformation episode and it very much changes the direction of where the show is going in quite a big way.
"It's in the can and all the 3D and effects and everything like that is taking place as we speak."
The actress went on to discuss John Hurt's Doctor, saying that the episode will "explore" the mysterious character.
"He is the Doctor that no-one knew about. He is the Doctor that's never talked about, not mentioned, and of course we're going to explore why and that story, and also see David's Doctor and Matt's Doctor and John's Doctor - the three of them interacting, which is great," she added.
Doctor Who's 50th anniversary special will air on BBC One on Saturday, November 23. The episode will be Smith's penultimate before bowing out of the show at Christmas. The show's eighth series - the first featuring the 12th Doctor - will air in 2014, with Coleman continuing to appear as companion Clara Oswald.
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