How To Make A Girl Like You More

By Matthew Farrell

Have you ever wanted to know how to make a girl like you? If you have you probably asked yourself the question, "is it possible for any guy to make a girl like him?"My answer to the second question is an emphatic yes. Not only do I believe that any guy can make a girl like him, I also believe he can do this with any girl.This may seem like an over the top belief, but I promise you it's true. I could make a list of seduction masters who were or are less than desirable on the surface, but I think there is a much better way of proving it to you.Go to the most popular mall in your town and take a good look around. Notice the beautiful girls that are walking around and then notice the guys they're with. Take a quick second and grade those guys on their looks.

For her to take notice of you, you will have to be very confident. Why would she go out with a guy who is a wimp? So, work on your confidence and be absolutely self assured when you are around her.You will fade in the background if you are not the leader. It is only leaders who get noticed and it is only leaders who get all the popular girls. Dunk the notion of being in the herd and following a pattern. Set your own methods and make your own notions and let people around you follow them. Make sure that the popular girl is around when all this action is happening.

Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.

At this stage, there's a need to reinforce your mystique with spontaneity. Use spontaneity as your foundation to approach every conversation, moments of eye contact, and, hopefully, and one-on-one personal time. I assure you, this will keep her continuously craving more of you, and this is a good thing. It is exactly what you want to get a girl to like you and want to know more.Now that you have got her attention and have created a thirst of curiosity, you need to seal off all your efforts with creativity. Creativity ensures that you maintain this newly found kinship. Now, the good thing about creativity is that it works pretty much like a fingerprint. It is as individual as each individual. Don't worry about anyone else; you can bring it like you. No one else can touch that and this will be one of the key things she likes about you in comparison to anyone else.

The third thing to do is to gain the ability to talk to a girl you like. Learn how to use your voice when you talk to women. Keep eye contact and occasionally flick to her lips so that you can create some sexual tension. Get good at banter. Don't be afraid to mock her a little. Have interesting stories from your life ready and practice telling them to your friends. Relax and be comfortable around girls. Also learn how to be a good listener. Women love conversation. There are times when you need to build attraction through talk, but often times the more intimate moments call for your attention.

When it comes to seducing women, what most men do not know is they tend to focus on the wrong things to do - which is the reason why they get rejected by women. You see, in order to make women like you, you must first find out the things that REALLY work before doing them.Those who are good with women realize that there are a set of psychology tactics which they can use to literally 'force' a girl to like them. Weird, but true. Read on to discover two 'dirty' psychology tactics, and how they can be used to achieved phenomenal results, almost instantly.

Covert Tactic 1 - "Fake Social Proof". To the layman, the term 'social proof' means popularity (with both men and women). This tactic, first popularized in the world of persuasion and influence, involves the 'setting up' of perceived popularity. This means that if you can create the illusion that you LEAD a group (of men and women), you will come across as highly attractive.

Covert Tactic 2 - "Fractionation". This is a neuro linguistic programming (also known as NLP) tactic which has been used extensively to hypnotize people. Through a simple (but systematic) usage of anchors and emotional elicitations, men who use this technique have been known to be able to make females sleep with them in less than 15 minutes. Very powerful stuff, and highly controversial - some has called for it to be 'banned' because of its nature.

With the words starting to flow, she will look for excuses to touch your hand or your arm. Making physical contact with you is a sure sign of her interest.If your crush is on a girl you know or work with, you may believe this complicates matters. Nobody wants to be rejected by someone they have to see or speak to on a daily basis. In fact, fancying someone you're friendly with puts you in a great position; you will already have proven to her that you're a good guy, and your close contact gives you plenty of opportunities to figure out if she's interested in you.

Before you even go out, you have to make sure that you can be confident about the way you look in case you meet an attractive woman at your destination. If you have to make a decision between being ten minutes late for a date 'coz you had to take a shower and arriving there on time in your work clothes, by all means be late. Any woman will appreciate the fact that you took time to look presentable. When spending time with a woman, your clothes should be clean and well-pressed and you should make sure that you do not give off any unpleasant body odour. It would also help if you spent time at the gym on a regular basis.

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